Stay safe
Safety Tips
Hey there! We want you to have a great time using Bye Catfish Dating while also being safe. We’ve put together some safety tips that we hope will help you feel confident and secure while using our platform. Remember, your safety is our top priority, whether you’re chatting online or meeting up with someone in person. Although we can’t control the actions of others, we want to help you take the necessary precautions to keep yourself protected. We’re excited for you to find genuine connections through our platform and hope these safety tips will be useful. Happy dating!
The first meeting
- If you’re planning to go on a first date, it’s always best to choose a public location like a cozy restaurant or a nice coffee shop. In case your date wants to meet up at their place or somewhere isolated, it’d be best to cancel the plans. Remember to prioritize your safety and comfort above everything else.
- It’s always okay to stick to your own boundaries and make decisions that feel right for you. It’s important not to let anyone pressure you into doing something you’re not comfortable with, like drinking too much alcohol or taking illegal substances. Remember, you have the power to choose what’s best for you and your well-being. So go out there, enjoy yourself, and stay safe!
- Use your own transportation if possible. It gives you the flexibility to leave whenever you need to. In order to ensure your safety and NO NOT arranging to be picked up from your home.
- It’s always a good idea to let your loved ones in on your plans, especially when it comes to dating. Always inform a close friend or family member about your plans and when they can expect you back? You might also want to arrange to check in with them after each of your first few dates, just to let them know how it went.
- Make sure you have a fully charged mobile phone with emergency numbers easily accessible. It’s always important to be prepared, just in case.
- Keep your bag and drinks within your line of sight at all times. It’s always good to stay aware of your surroundings and keep your belongings safe.
Trust your own judgement
We encourage you to trust your own instincts when chatting with new users. If you feel like someone is giving off some red flags, don’t hesitate to put your safety first and take a break from chatting with them. Here are some red flags that you might want to keep an eye out for. Stay safe and have fun on Bye Catfish Dating!
- They claim to be from the UK but currently reside, work, or travel abroad.
- They request your assistance, whether in goods or money by claiming to be in an emergency or danger situation.
- They suddenly disappear from the site and reappear with a different name.
- They push for the relationship to progress faster than you feel comfortable with.
- Messages quickly escalate from introductions to deeper connections and are poorly written.
- They exhibit inconsistent, exaggerated storytelling or ask inappropriate questions.
- They provide vague answers to specific questions.
- They pressure you to compromise your principles.
- They continually blame others for their troubles.
- They push to become excessively close at a rapid pace or claim to be recently widowed.
- They push you to message off the app when you don’t feel comfortable doing it.
If you happen to come across any red flags, please don’t hesitate to get in touch with our team using this link. We want to be there for you every step of the way!
Keep a lookout for any important details that the person you’re talking to might share with you. At the end of the day, it’s all about making sure you feel comfortable and safe when communicating with others online. So, if something doesn’t sit right with you, it’s totally okay to trust your instincts and maybe take a step back. Stay safe and enjoy your conversations!
Keep your finances secure
Make sure to take care of your personal and financial security by not sharing sensitive information like your debit or credit card details. We also suggest being wary of any requests for money or goods from other users. Remember, if you ever receive a call from us regarding your account, it’s because you specifically requested for someone to call you first.
Please also note that our team will never ask for your full financial details over the phone, but may ask for the last 4 digits of your payment method to verify your ownership.
If anyone you match with pressures you for personal information like this, feel free to cease communication immediately and report the user. As always, we’re here to help if you need uss
Protect your Bye Catfish Dating account
We care about your safety and want to make sure your Bye Catfish Dating account is secure, especially when using a public or shared computer. Check out these helpful tips we recommend you keep in mind to protect your account.
- 1. Be aware of your surroundings and make sure no one can see or record your password or personal information.
2. Always logout of your Bye Catfish Dating account when you’re finished using it on a public or shared computer.
3. Never save your login or personal information on public computers.
4. Use private browsing or incognito mode when accessing your account to minimise the chances of leaving behind any traces of your activity.
5. Be aware of spyware that may be installed on public computers. Using trusted antivirus software can help protect against such threats.
Following these precautions can really make a difference: stay alert, double-check your log-in details, and be careful not to share any sensitive info. By taking a few simple steps, you can enjoy your online dating experience with peace of mind. Thanks for being a responsible user!
Keep your personal information personal
It’s always better safe than sorry, which is why we’d love to remind you to be careful when sharing personal information like your last name, email, home address, or phone number in your profile or messages. We want you to enjoy your experience with us while feeling comfortable and secure, so take your time to get to know people before sharing any personal details. Remember, it’s better to be safe than sorry!
Be friendly
It’s totally okay if you and your match don’t hit it off right away. It happens to everyone! It’s always best to keep open communication with someone you’re chatting with, but don’t be afraid to speak up if you think it’s not working out. Just make sure to be kind, direct, and honest. Remember, you never know where a connection could come from, so don’t burn any bridges. Good luck!
For added safety use our
chaperone service
Order a chaperone service* – Ultimate first date safety!
*Currently only available in London, Hertfordshire and Essex. Other areas may be available subject to extra mileage cost, please enquire
How our verified chaperone service works
Our chaperone service costs just £119.99 for the first two hours.
- £19.99 covers their food cost so they can sit at a table and eat or drink without becoming suspicious.
- £100 to cover their cost for up to 2 hours.
Once your booking has been confirmed with us, you must provide details of the following 5 days before your date:
- Date and time of the booking.
- Name and address of the restaurant.
- A recent photo of you and your date.
- A mobile number that you will have with you on your date.
You will then receive a text message from your chaperone, please save this number for you date night. They will send you a message when they arrive at the restaurant 15 minutes prior to you. They will then message you after 30 minutes of you and your dates arrival to ask if everything is ok and to let you know that they are there if you need anything. If at anytime you would like your chaperone to approach your table and provide you with a safe exit, please send a message with the number 1 immediately.
When the two hours are up your chaperone will send you a message saying I’m leaving work. At this point you can chose to leave with them safely, to stay with your date or to have your chaperone stay longer, billed immediately at £50 per hour.
Stay safe
External Help
Your safety is extremely important to us. If you ever find yourself in a dangerous situation, please don’t hesitate to dial 999 for immediate help. We also want to remind you that we’re here to help if you’ve had a negative experience with a match. Our Bye Catfish Dating team can offer advice, support, and take necessary actions to address the situation. We genuinely care and strongly encourage you to report any instances of bad dates or violent incidents. By doing so, you’re helping us create a safer environment for everyone. If you’re not sure how to report a match, you can find information on how to do so by visiting the clicking here.
Suicide prevention/The Samaritans
T: 116 123 for free
W: samaritans.org
Sexual Assault or rape/Rape Crisis Centre
T: 0808 500 2222
W: rapecrisis.org.uk
International Planned Parenthood Federation
T: 020 7939 8200
W: ippf.org
Domestic Abuse
T: 0808 2000 247
W: nationalhelpline.org.uk/en
Human Trafficking
T: 08000 121 700
W: met.police.co.uk
Sexual Abuse
T: 0808 500 2222
W: sexualabusesupport.campaign.gov.uk
W: 247sexualabusesupport.org.uk
